Our Spring Wedding & Winds of Change


“I hope when we find our ‘house of dreams,’ dearest, that there will be winds around it. I wonder where it is… that unknown house. That home of the future where we will have love and friendship and work… and a few funny adventures to bring laughter into our old age.”

~ L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Windy Poplars


Recounting God’s goodness in March & April:

Ironing projects for the wedding, and how the sweet smell of iron on felt always makes me think of Nanny’s house

A sunny afternoon to walk down to Papa Larry’s, pick a few of the first daffodils, and fill a sample jar for the wedding; how Papa ordered 200 cut daffodils and tied bows himself for all the vases

Breadbaking and more breadbaking, loaves and loaves

A March day to work with all the screens open, winds blowing throughout the house, slamming doors and rustling things

Soup and bread meal with all my sisters and bridesmaids

Walking my old newspaper route down Edgewood to visit each neighbor and ask to use their driveway for wedding parking, and how gracious and excited they were for me

Forsythia bushes beginning to golden

The night the storms came: prayers in the basement and card games by flashlight

Pancake breakfast on the Blackstone because we had no power, tree limb pickup, a meal brought to us, kids all over the front yard, cheering when the utility trucks came up the road

A whole-family evening game of wiffle ball

Wedding-music-practice-turned-kitchen-jam-session with the siblings

Jared’s parents bringing in so many bouquets of flowers and preparing a feast for everyone the night before the wedding

A wedding morning on the glowing edge of spring

Stringing banners in the trees and fluffing tablecloths on picnic tables in the morning light

Elsie, Elanor, & Lila with rubber boots and curls in their hair; the little boys in hobbit cloaks

Putting on my grandma’s earrings and the pearl necklace Jared gave to me

Moms, sisters, and friends praying over me just before the ceremony

Peering through my grandparents’ blinds to see people gathering and Jared down at the pond in his wedding suit, waiting

Come Thou Fount Of Every Blessing & Dad’s sermon on Ephesians 5 & becoming man and wife right there at the pond’s edge, under a spring sky

Homemade chili lunch, sourdough, honey, & a table of cookies and pies the church ladies made

Kids in dress clothes playing tug-of-war and having sack races

Running down the driveway to a shower of rice and confetti

Arriving home in Arkansas a week later to the daffodils we planted in fall, bloomed

The first few ordinary days of marriage: organizing the kitchen cabinets, folding laundry, trying out a new coffee maker, open screens, and dinner on the back porch

Planting the first herbs in the garden

Days of rain and a visit from my family, which always means ping-pong in the kitchen

How I’ve taken on my mom’s habit of sweeping the floors late in the day, when the sunlight finds all the crumbs and dirt

On a week when sickness crept into the house: herbal teas, homemade applesauce, elderberry, & Rings of Power

Tilling rows and planting our first garden of tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers, & squash

Learning to salvage things from the fridge before they spoil, making muffins out of ripe bananas

Hanging baskets for the back porch

Finding a local plant nursery nearby and big greenhouses full of flowers, feeling a bit more at home

Driving on a dark, stormy morning to the Easter Sunday Sunrise Service and a big potluck breakfast afterwards

Talking with Rick about beekeeping and hunting, and him lending me copies of homestead & gardening magazines

This lovely interview with Vesta Sproul

Jared sending me a George Herbert poem from work

Setting up the sewing room and starting in on projects, windows open for a late afternoon rain on the garden

Listening to Elizabeth Elliot while I cleaned the kitchen

Phone calls and FaceTimes with my family and the littles


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