A Bouquet of Thanks


This piece was written for our church’s November newsletter, Grace & Peace.

When I was a little girl, I remember something Corrie ten Boom said that stayed with me:

“When people come up and give me a compliment… I take each remark as if it were a flower. At the end of the day I lift up the bouquet of flowers I have gathered throughout the day and say, ‘Here you are, Lord, it is all Yours.'”

I remember trying to practice this myself in bed at night, collecting all the good things of the day like wildflowers from the field. I would put my fists together, then lift them toward the ceiling of my dark bedroom. Of course, I probably only remembered to do it once or twice. Thanksgiving, as we all know, is a discipline that too often gets trampled by busyness, laziness, or just the drowsiness that falls over us at the end of the day.

Later, when I was a teenager, one of my friends gave me a thanksgiving journal and encouraged me to write in it every day. For several years, I did, and that journal became a big bouquet of unexpected little gifts: frost on the window, coffee on a cold morning, a bird on the sill, flag football with my nephews, thunder, coyote calls, homemade bread.

Corrie’s practice is a beautiful one, because it penetrates to the heart of the matter—that giving lies within thanksgiving. When we give thanks, we are simply returning to God what was already His, like a child who picks a flower from her momma’s garden to give back to her. In the language of the Psalms, we are ascribing to the LORD the glory due His name (Ps. 29:2).

The glory already belongs to Him; we are simply returning to Him what He already owns in abundance. He tends every bird of the field and farms the cattle on a thousand hills (Ps. 50:10-11).

What Paul asked the Corinthians we must ask ourselves: “What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Cor. 4:7)

“What do you have that you did not receive?” – 1 Cor. 4:7


And so thanksgiving is a practice at both ends: to gather what we’re given, then give it back to God. This includes every beautiful marigold and chrysanthemum—but as Corrie ten Boom well knew, it includes the thorns and thistles, too.


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