On Leaky Toilets & Ordinary Days

Dear Maggie, One night last fall, our bathroom toilet flooded. It burst its banks and flowed out into our hallway and down the seams of our wood floors. It might have run clear to the Arkansas River had we not thrown down towels to stop it, creating a wet sort of dam. The toilet water … Continue reading On Leaky Toilets & Ordinary Days

On Goldenrod & Body Image

Dear Maggie,* Once when I was a teenager, I went to a big concert by a Christian band-โ€“the kind of concert where you feel the drums beat under your ribcage. The event was themed around one of the bandโ€™s new songs, which dealt with the worth of a young woman who doesnโ€™t see herself as … Continue reading On Goldenrod & Body Image

To a Girl Engaged

Dear Maggie,* Last May, Jared and I found ourselves in that funny place of not-yet-being-engaged but knowing we would be pretty soon, if know what I mean. Itโ€™s a gentle transition you donโ€™t necessarily talk about, but thatโ€™s written all over a girlโ€™s face and obvious in the things she starts buying: dishes, for example.  … Continue reading To a Girl Engaged